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Burial at Sea · San Diego

Burial at Sea San Diego

A private, dignified maritime ceremony beyond San Diego Bay — every permit and detail handled with care, so your family can simply be present.

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Rose Petals Included
All Permits Handled
GPS Coordinates Recorded
Eight Rings of the Bell

Saying goodbye on the water is different. There is something about the ocean — its scale, its permanence, its quiet — that holds grief in a way that land cannot quite match. The horizon goes on. The water moves. Time feels both larger and more manageable at the same time. People who have done a burial at sea often say the same thing afterward: this is what they would have wanted.

Sterling Sails offers private burial at sea ceremonies in San Diego, sailing Mojave out through the bay and into the Pacific Ocean where the scattering takes place in federal waters. We handle all of the permits, all of the logistics, and the quiet careful details — so that you and your family can be fully present for the ceremony itself, without managing anything other than the moment. This is a solemn service, and we approach every charter with the care, respect, and sensitivity it deserves.

What Happens During a Burial at Sea Charter

A ceremony that moves at your pace.

  • Your family boards Mojave at Harbor Island. We greet you and give everyone time to settle on board before casting off. There is no rush. The sail out begins quietly.

  • Mojave passes through San Diego Bay and into the Pacific Ocean. The transition from the protected bay to open water is gradual and peaceful. Eventually we arrive near Coronado, Point Loma, and Mexico. Many families find this portion of the sail a natural time to begin gathering together and remembering their loved one.

  • Once Mojave reaches federal waters at the legally required distance from shore, the vessel comes to rest and the ceremony begins. The pace is entirely yours — there is no timeline to follow. Families use this time for words, readings, prayers, music, or silence. Rose petals are included and go into the water alongside the scattering when your family is ready.

  • Following the scattering, the ship’s bell is rung eight times — the traditional maritime farewell signaling the end of a watch and the completion of a voyage. The GPS coordinates of the scattering location are recorded and provided to your family as a permanent record. The sail back to Harbor Island is unhurried.

Eight bells — the traditional maritime farewell.

After the scattering, the ship's bell is rung eight times — the completion of a watch, and a voyage. The GPS coordinates are recorded and given to your family as a permanent record of the place.

$950All-inclusive · 2.5-hour private ceremonyUp to 6 guests · all permits, reporting, rose petals & coordinates includedArrange a Ceremony

Every Ceremony Includes

  • 2.5-hour fully private charter for up to 6 guests
  • All required EPA burial at sea permits — filed on your behalf
  • Rose petals included — or bring your own flowers and biodegradable materials
  • GPS coordinates of the scattering location recorded and provided to your family
  • Eight rings of the ship’s bell — the traditional maritime farewell
  • No other passengers on board — complete privacy throughout
  • USCG licensed captain
  • Post-ceremony EPA reporting handled by Sterling Sails

Legal Requirements for Burial at Sea in San Diego

We handle the paperwork, so you don't have to.

Sterling Sails sails to a location that fully meets all legal requirements. You do not need to research or verify this yourself.

The EPA requires that a burial at sea report be filed within 30 days of the ceremony. Sterling Sails handles this paperwork completely on behalf of your family — one less thing you need to think about during an already difficult time.

Cremated remains may be scattered at sea. Flowers, wreaths, and other fully biodegradable materials may accompany the scattering. Non-biodegradable materials may not be placed in the water; we will advise you on anything you are unsure about.

The open Pacific beyond San Diego Bay at sunset
Quiet golden light through the rigging of the Mojave
The Mojave sailing out toward open water

Questions Families Ask

Here to help, gently.

  • Sterling Sails charges $950 for a 2.5-hour private burial at sea charter. This includes all EPA permits and post-ceremony reporting, rose petals, GPS coordinates of the scattering location, the eight-bell ceremony, and a USCG licensed captain for up to 6 guests.

Sterling Sails would be honored to help your family say goodbye with peace and dignity on the water.

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